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Sunday, January 31, 2010

Part 1 : FATINE YOUNG aka MOHD FADZIL BAHARI

Cerita ni dah lama, awal Disember tahun 2009, tapi sangat hangat diperkatakan ketika itu kerana ada pelbagai pendapat dan pandangan. Jadi sebagai renungan bersama, kita tengok balik dari mulanya ye.

Malaysian transsexual Fatine's UK love story has sparked so much hate back home that she fears to return.
"I am so frightened to go back. I am worried for my safety," she said in response to what she claimed was a Malay tabloid's wrongful portrayal of her love and civil partnership marriage to a Briton.
Ian Young married wife Fatine, a transexual he met while working in Malaysia, earlier 2009. Now she faces being deported from the UK after encountering problems when applying for leave to remain in the country. .
 Ian and Fatine are desperate to stay together here in the UK and are set to take their campaign to the airwaves. 

She said she had been receiving many emails and comments from people condemning and accusing her of insulting the Malaysian government.

Wedding bliss...Fatine and Ian on the day of their marriage
Wedding bliss...Fatine and Ian on the day of their marriage
Fatine, who was born Mohammed Fazdil Min Bahari said it was frustrating that people didn’t understand that she came to the UK because she wanted to be with Ian Young, the man she loved.
The 36-year old make-up artist, said she could not do that in Malaysia, adding that people only seemed to be taking a religious point of view over the matter.
Speaking up for the first time after The Sun newspaper in London broke the story, Fatine said she did not know what to do as her family had already disowned her.
"I’ve spent hours on the phone asking for forgiveness. I love them although but I can’t change what has happened," she said.
Fatine said it was a shame that the Malay tabloid had "twisted" their story, stressing that as it was never their intention to insult the Malay community.
"They also put my father’s name in it, which was unnecessary and my mother has been left frightened to leave the house," he added.
Fatine said she regretted that the community was taking it personally.

She said she appreciated that the Malays are very traditional and "people like me aren’t acceptable" and hoped that things would cool down eventually.
Fatine, who married Young in a civil partnership in May, faces deportation after her Leave to Remain visa was rejected by UK's Home Office over an "incorrect" photograph.
A second application with a passport photograph with a white background as required, instead of blue, was submitted for reconsideration but it was also thrown out in October.
Fatine and Ian fear that they would be in danger if they return to Malaysia
Fatine and Ian fear that they would be in danger if they return to Malaysia
The couple have since submitted their third application for a Right to Family Life under the Human Rights Act in Britain.
On Monday, Immigration director-general Datuk Abdul Rahman Othman said the department might take action against Fatine when she returns home as it views problems like overstaying seriously.
Young, 30, who runs a property maintenance company, however, said Fatine’s application was still being processed by the UK Border Agency and she should not be classified as an overstayer.
He also claimed that as a result of the "misleading" article, everyone was misreading their story as an insult to Islam which it was never intended to be.
"All we want is to be married, be happy and living together. The only way we can do this is over here in the UK," he said.
He said the article made it sound like they were trying to make a mockery of Islamic laws, which was never their intention.
"As a result of the way we have been portrayed, I feel that we would be in more danger than ever if we were to try and live in Malaysia," he said.

7 comments:

maffey said...

biar betul kak...astaga...

SyarifahNorasiahAidid said...

:) ha'a betul maffey...

Unknown said...

after the fight to keep fatine with me in the uk i would like to let you all know she got her visa but now she has her visa she has left me seems she had this planned all along she is a scammer and used me ,friends and family to stay her she is now living with her new boyfriend in blackpool uk after ditching me she is a digrace to genuine people in love and will hurt anyone with out thinking

thank you all
Ian James Young

Pomme said...

Just read the article in DailyChilli. I am just shocked beyond belief after reading this article coz I still remember how Fatine and Ian both came out with their plight to the media on her visa problems. And now, after finally getting leave to remain permanently in the UK, she literally chucked him out like a piece of garbage! How could she now do this to her own husband? Fatine is such a hypocrite and a monster. I really pity Ian. He shouldnt have given his all to that monster. Well guess Ian was just her meal ticket after all.

kikilala said...

i think it would not fair to blame fatine for the things that had happened to her/his marriage with ian. we never know what they have been through and it is not us to judge for what had happened. only they know better despite what we had been fed on from the media about her/his story. how we perceived things can be influenced by the media and the media can be bias sometimes. and not to say that i am supporting her/him. just that it would be better if we don't say things that we don't know for sure.


just my two cents:)

Pomme said...

Well kikilala, you have your opinion and I have mine. Just respect each other's opinions and agree to disagree OK?

Anonymous said...

Hmm, what do you expect, you took someone from a nightclub (working girl/pros) and try to turn them into a loyal house wife?..." You can take the girl away from the bar BUT you can never take the bar away from the girl".....

I've known her for so many years, ever since before she start working for one of the leading make up brand in Kuala Lumpur....